LIBRA ZODIAC SIGN
Color: Pink, Green
Greatest Overall Compatibility: Aries, Sagittarius
Lucky Numbers: 4, 6, 13, 15, 24
Date range: September 23 – October 22
Strengths: Cooperative, Diplomatic, Gracious, Fair-Minded, Social
Weaknesses: Indecisive, Avoids Confrontations, Will Carry a Grudge, Self-Pity
Libra likes: Harmony, Gentleness, Sharing With Others, The Outdoors
Libra dislikes: Violence, Injustice, Loudmouths, Conformity
People born under the sign of Libra are peaceful, fair, and they hate being alone. Partnership is very important for them, as their mirror and someone giving them the ability to be the mirror themselves. These individuals are fascinated by balance and symmetry, they are in a constant chase for justice and equality, realizing through life that the only thing that should be truly important to themselves in their own inner core of personality. This is someone ready to do nearly anything to avoid conflict, keeping the peace whenever possible.
The sign of Libra is an Air sign, set between Gemini and Aquarius, giving these individuals constant mental stimuli, strong intellect and a keen mind. They will be inspired by good books, insurmountable discussions and people who have a lot to say. Each Libra representative has to be careful when talking to other people, for when they are forced to decide about something that is coming their way, or to choose sides, they suddenly realize that they might be in the wrong place and surrounded by wrong people. No partner should make them forget that they have their own opinion.
Planet ruling the sign of Libra is Venus, making these people great lovers but also fond of expensive, material things. Their lives need to be enriched by music, art, and beautiful places they get a chance to visit. This is the seventh sign of the Zodiac, which is governed by the planet Venus. People born in this sign are generally tall, athletic and strong. They possess charming personality, sweet smile and attractive eyes. Venus the ruler makes Libran highly reserved, docile, sensitive and possessive. Being an airy sign a Libran will tend to be highly imaginative, pleasant, courteous, creative and elegant individual. They are cool-headed people who do not get into hot discussions easily. If they get angry there anger is short-lived and they get calm very soon. They are fashionable and trendy people, who like to spend lavishly on new clothes, jewelry and perfumes.
The outstanding characteristics of Librans are their willingness to help those in need. They voluntarily provide financial, moral and psychological support to the ones they care. They are also very social and like to spend time and resources with loved ones. Venus also makes Librans highly creative. They will try traditional methods first but if desired results fail, they will try new methods to achieve success. As Librans are simple, noble and benevolent people they tend to be fooled very easily. They need to choose their associates very carefully. Librans enjoy excellent convincing power. They are good at expressing themselves about all aspects of life, and people around them must generously endorse their statements.
A favorite complaint of a Libran is: ‘It’s not fair that he should treat me like that after all I’ve done so much for him!’ Of course, the other person may simply be incapable of expressing his gratitude in the manner in which the Libran would like, but the Libran would find that hard to accept. A permanent emotional relationship has to be on a reciprocal basis. It has to be a give and take relationship if the Libran has to be kept happy.
A Libran avoids quarrels and confrontations. Indecisiveness marks their personality and is their worst fault. ‘One must wait and see what happens’ they say and they will wait, putting off decisions for as long as possible. They have a reputation for being lazy. Often Librans are not as soft as they appear to be. They are fairly eager to achieve what they want, but they may appear lazy due to indecisiveness. They may adopt a pose of charming inactivity. This may be simply a pause between one activity and the next or may be a well thought out decision. The Libran may be indecisive, but when they do decide that they want something, they generally get it, somehow or the other. They make excellent host. Their homes are comfortable and guests find the atmosphere relaxing. Although Librans enjoy good financial position, they tend to be highly spendthrifts. Librans are good companions as they are sincere, honest and highly caring. If the ruling planet Venus is afflicted in any manner in ones birth chart then it would give altogether negative results.
LIBRA MAN IN LOVE
When a Libra man falls in love, he will see the subject of his affection as a person he is going to marry. He can be quite dependent on feeling attractive and loved, but you will know he loves you when he starts talking about marriage. This can happen at the beginning of a relationship and a Libra man can move too fast, scaring his partner away with expectations that seem unreal. This is a consequence of the Air element of Libra that gives this man speed and intent, with a need to follow his ideas through. The incredible thing about him is his ability to rush into love and marriage even though his sign exalts Saturn and we would expect him to slow down and wait for the right moment. Someone would say that he wouldn’t take things that lightly, but the fact is he can’t waste his time on relationships with no future or depth. He simply thinks it is best to know where he stands right away.
LIBRA MAN SEXUALITY
Libra man can be one of the best lovers of the zodiac, if only his Sun is not too damaged. Ruled by Venus, he cares about his partner’s pleasure, and truly loves the creative satisfaction behind the act. In case a Libra man has a truly damaged Sun, he can be incredibly selfish and incapable of forming an intimate relationship. The biggest problem arises when he relies too hard on Saturn, being too formal, strict, cold or stiff. This can even lead to impotence and other problems with expressing his sexuality in a healthy way.
LIBRA MAN IN RELATIONSHIPS
With a bruised ego, a Libra man can act like a little, insulted child. It takes a lot of effort and lucky family circumstances in his life, for him to be aware that not everything is a personal insult intended to hurt him. Whatever the situation in the insult department, this is a man who will stay in a relationship for a long time if he decides to be with someone. He will not give up at the first sight of difficulty and he will trust his feelings without a doubt. In most situations he will remain calm and try to show a just way to resolve any issue in his partner’s life or their relationship. When he obsessively gives in, thinking he found the love of his life, there is a great chance he will put too much focus on his partner lacking the ability to turn to himself and build his own life.
CAN YOU TRUST YOUR LIBRA MAN
This is a man who can be trusted. He is not your regular unmovable character that will never cheat. In his search for oneness he can change quite a few partners, some of them coinciding in time. The additional problem to trust for a Libra man is his low self-esteem, making him question every decision he has to make. He will sometimes give up on his principles just to get confirmation of his attractiveness and his ability to win someone’s heart. However, if he truly decides he wants to be with you exclusively, he will never break his promise of fidelity, for as long as he is given the image of a perfect love he signed up for.
DATING LIBRA MEN
The is gallant, tactful, well dressed and even better behaved, and of course, in most cases, he chooses a partner that is the exact opposite. This can be a problem if he starts telling you how to dress or behave, because this only speaks of his way to feed his bruised ego. No partner wants to be in this position with a Libra man. With clearly set boundaries and enough respect, he will take you to fancy places, art galleries, theater and occasions where you need to dress up. He likes to create a certain image and the best way to date him is to show an understanding for his need to show your love to the rest of the world. He will want to be looked at, cherished, caressed and touched in public, even though he might have a problem showing his own affection among other people.
UNDERSTANDING LIBRA MEN
Libra man is not easy to understand. His role in the world is to find general balance and you have to see how tough an assignment this is. He has to judge, show us the weight of our Souls and give in to absolute justice. Too much responsibility makes him incredibly indecisive, for he understands what many of us don’t – his responsibility for each decision he makes and the set of consequences that might follow. His ego is bruised and his priorities seem to be shuffled, while he might be lost on his own character and wishes, just out of a need to please others. In order to find peace, this man needs to break all his dependencies, be able to be alone, and leave any image or an opinion people might have about him without fear. He needs to become aware of who he is without the influence of others.
LIBRA MAN LIKES AND DISLIKES
He may seem like an insulted child, unaware of anyone else’s feelings on one hand, and fully aware of the world and the way to reach balance in another. He can be disrespectful in the most ridiculous, passive way, sometimes unrecognizable to the person he dates, but he can also show an incredible understanding for his loved ones if he forms a strong emotional bond.
HOW TO CHOOSE A GIFT FOR YOUR LIBRA MAN
He will probably want something expensive. Even if he doesn’t seem like a material type, a set of fancy headphones, an expensive professional camera or shoes that you’d never by at that price, will make him feel valued and proud. He always wants something that looks fancy, with simple lines and an even boringly moderate shape and set of colors. So go for beige, grey or black and white if you aren’t certain of his preferences. Some moderate green might come in handy too. The perfect gift for him needs to fit his size and his mind. It needs to stimulate his intellect or be truly beautiful and tasteful. It doesn’t have to be practical at all, for as long as is inspires him through beauty or real creativity.
LIBRA WOMAN IN LOVE
When a Libra woman falls in love, she starts questioning her decision to be in love, as if it was possible to control. The rule of Venus comes to focus here, for she will do anything in her power to fall out of love if a person she has feelings for is socially unacceptable for her standards. This is a sign that lacks initiative, and due to the position of her Sun, this woman can see men in her life as weak and passive. This will make her show initiative when in love, even when it is not the time, nor the place to do so. It is almost as if she wants to show how liberal she actually is, but she suffers the exaltation of Saturn and is, in fact, quite turned to traditional values and appropriate behavior.
LIBRA WOMAN SEXUALITY
This is a strange subject for a Libra woman. She will go into extremes, on one hand showing her sexuality as if it was a given for everyone to see, and on the other being quite insecure in actual sexual encounters. Her problem with self-esteem will become an unbearable issue with a partner that disrespects her in any way, and she might feel obligated to remain in this type of a relationship because of unconscious feelings of guilt. When she is with the right partner, she will want to experiment, try out everything that pops into her mind and communicate freely about her desires and preferences.
LIBRA WOMAN IN RELATIONSHIPS
In a relationship with a Libra woman, you can expect anything, for as long as it is well “packed”. She will be caring and deep, but also be prepared to show her selfish, manipulative side, wrapped in candy paper. It can be hard to understand her position, because she will rarely show her uncontrolled emotions and passions, so the right partner needs to know her deeply and intimately, including the things she doesn’t want to show. In general, when she decides to be with someone, she will be committed and loyal. Even though she can often be too worried about other people’s opinions, she will stick to her choices even if they are not good for her.
CAN YOU TRUST YOUR LIBRA WOMAN
In general, Libra woman is faithful, but she doesn’t always say what she means. Her emotions are often hidden because she feels they are unproductive or shameful, and she won’t have a real outburst of emotions even when she would gladly explode. She cares more about the way she acts than about the way she actually feels, and this can leave her in a pretty bad place for a long time. If you understand her deeply enough you will be able to trust her, but only if you feel her emotions.
DATING LIBRA WOMAN
This is a woman that will date for pleasure only for as long as she is not ready for marriage. As soon as she becomes ready, she will only look for serious relationships and won’t take much of uncertainty and unclear emotions from her partner. Her need to be with someone for better or for worse is extremely strong, and dating her will never be casual, even if she says it is. She can be quite needy, seem incapable of doing anything alone, and her dates can’t seem to avoid the closeness and the road to marriage unless she is not interested to stay with her partner at all. The interesting thing about a Libra woman is that there is no middle ground with her. If she wants to date you, she will probably want to marry you in the long run.
UNDERSTANDING YOUR LIBRA WOMAN
This is a woman that must have unresolved issues with her father and she is not easy to understand. She can be wonderful, caring, give you her undivided attention and be just and responsible more than any other sign. But her low self-esteem makes her dependent on opinions of others, or too quick to show she doesn’t care about anyone’s opinion. She doesn’t understand why other people don’t act in the way she would, and this makes her question her every move. Every Libra is indecisive, but the truth is, this woman cares too much about the future to let things slide, and takes on too much guilt and responsibility. This inevitably leads to a state of self-pity and taking the role of a victim.
LIBRA WOMAN LIKES AND DISLIKES
She is just, loyal, committed and tactful. She will be prepared to give her life for the partner she chooses. However, she can be too focused on other people and forget who she is in the process. This makes her controlling, inflexible and disrespectful, losing her ability to approach other people’s characters and motives without judgment.
HOW TO CHOOSE A GIFT FOR YOUR LIBRA WOMAN
Even though the sign of Libra exalts Saturn, the Air element of this sign will make her more fascinated by a nice surprise than following the expected routine. It wouldn’t be good to miss her birthday or your anniversary, but it would be much worse to give her presents only on those occasions. Surprise your Libra. Buy her flowers or a well-balanced perfume. She will value a piece of jewelry, a feminine watch or anything artistic and beautiful. She needs balance in her life, and she will like her presents to be moderate, not too colorful or pap. She will always be happy to get an unexpected box of chocolate, followed by a red rose, even if she feels guilty about her weight and the chocolate she will eat.
BRUTAL TRUTHS ABOUT LIBRA
They keep their personal life away from prying eyes, so don’t develop the impression you know them well. You only know that they want you to.
Once you have betrayed their trust, you will never get it back.
Regardless of how many times you will tell a Libra that you are fine, they won’t stop worrying until they are 100% sure of that.
Are skilled in subtly insults, by using kind words.
Are very intuitive, realizing what a person’s true character is, even from the first date.
Cannot control their expression when something is bothering them.
Although they carry a lot of pain, they will still wake you up with a smile on the face each morning.
Can’t have a single hobby. They prefer to experiment with everything.
The Libra is the kind of person who doesn’t expect anything in return for something.
When she is angry or in a bad mood, she will retreat in her world.
Libras are crazier than you might think. Not everything is milk and honey regarding them.
Love socializing, but can also enjoy loneliness.
Are so charming, that you won’t even notice when they will hypnotize you so as to do as they please.
The quickest way of irritating a Libra is not to answer a burning question.
Libras adore music and add new tracks to their playlist every day.
Believe in Karma. They try to good to others so as to get back the same thing.
In general, they are admired and many wish to obtain the condition of a Libra.
Don’t enjoy being compared to others.
Their mind is creative, innocent and independent.
Love a good laugh.
Don’t fall in love with anyone. They usually have high and well defined standards.
Become highly sarcastic when facing idiots.
Libra natives give the eronated impression that they are flirting, when just trying to be friendly.
One of the best qualities of Libras is their open minded nature.
Libras prefer being hated for what they are instead of loved for they are not.
You can get them on your side with a good laugh and a strong conversation.
Are perfectionists in some ways.
Adore shopping more than any other zodiacal sign.
Radiate happiness and positive energy, two things that are as attractive as a magnet.